I guess ideally, you would like to be both friends and lovers! That would indeed be wonderful, however, so many clients come to me and say “We are great friends and we have the same values. We do love each other, but we’re not in love anymore and we have almost no intimacy or sex. …
Here we are again, nearly at Christmas.🎄🎄🎄 or Chanukah 🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯 or whatever style of celebration you choose. A time of year when we have the aim of having fun and often being with family and friends, some we may not have seen since last year. And….it can be a tetchy time, with all the busyness …
Get Your Relationship on the Front Burner! What I realise about many couples, who come to see me, is that, although their relationship may be going pretty well, they recognise that there are aspects that really need enhancing. Alicia and Jeremy are one such couple in their early 30s. They are in a pretty good …
It’s been a beautiful summer around these parts (Folkestone, Kent) and I hope the same for you, wherever you are situated. And it’s got pretty chilly, all of a sudden. So, it’s just the right time to get more cosy and intimate together as the Autumn leaves start to fall….isn’t there a song in there …
Meet a couple called Margie and James. They are very different types from each other, as many couples are of course. She is generally calm, loves to be spontaneous and enjoys gregariousness and social activities. He is much more of an orderly type of person. He can be rather uptight and get stressed easily. He …
Meet ‘Amelia’ and ‘John’: Amelia feels like she’s living in a waiting room. She’s waiting. She’s waiting for Jonathan to do things she’d like him to do. A waiting room is a nowhere place, neither actively on the way nor having arrived. In a relationship, it’s an unsettled place, an emotional, probably anxious, resentful state. …
It’s good to be back with you again. I’m back in a different kind of way though. I want to tell you more stories about the couples I see and to inspire you with what they’re learning and bringing into their lives together. They are definitely turning relationship difficulties around. It never ceases to amaze …
Do you sometimes forget you can actually CHOOSE to be a certain way with your partner? You may need to slow down first and take a breath, a deep breath or four! This gives you a bit of breathing space (oh, I just realised where that expression comes from!), to ask yourself how you want …
We are coming up to the holiday season, a time when we hope for peace, and togetherness with those we love….and fun! However, all around us, there is uncertainty, fear and lack of integrity. So much that we cannot easily sit with. I struggle with reading the news because it’s either crazy or distressing, but …
There is nothing more important for the two of you than connection. It’s the vital ingredient that holds you in love and togetherness, even when the going gets tough.