Are You Friends Or Lovers!? Read To The End For A Joke….

I guess ideally, you would like to be both friends and lovers! That would indeed be wonderful, however, so many clients come to me and say “We are great friends and we have the same values. We do love each other, but we’re not in love anymore and we have almost no intimacy or sex. …

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A day for couples with ADHD in their relationship

Hello there, I rarely talk here about the fact that I live with ADHD in my life….not in myself directly, but my husband has it and we’ve been married for twenty-one years. My standard line is “I love him to pieces and he drives me nuts”!! If you are in this situation, you will probably …

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The Festive Intimacy Curve …2022!

Here we are again, nearly at Christmas.🎄🎄🎄 or Chanukah 🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯 or whatever style of celebration you choose. A time of year when we have the aim of having fun and often being with family and friends, some we may not have seen since last year. And….it can be a tetchy time, with all the busyness …

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Get Your Relationship on the Front Burner!

Support your relationship’s future, especially when things are not ‘horribly wrong’

Get Your Relationship on the Front Burner! What I realise about many couples, who come to see me, is that, although their relationship may be going pretty well, they recognise that there are aspects that really need enhancing.  Alicia and Jeremy are one such couple in their early 30s. They are in a pretty good …

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A Free Opportunity for Relationship Support

It looks like we have at least another four weeks of lockdown coming up. Did we ever imagine that something like this could happen?! And yet, here we are… in it! Many of us with our partners, in closer proximity than we may want them to be. So… I don’t want you to miss my …

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What is a couples intensive?

Many couples have discovered that when they are feeling disconnected and their relationship is struggling, it doesn’t help matters when life is busy and therapy sessions have to be fitted in within limited times. It can be challenging to re-build the solid foundation needed. A kick-start may be called for! A Couples Bespoke Intensive is …

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