I have to confess, it’s been a long time since I got into writing mode. Since the summer, my client numbers have ramped up considerably, especially more and more couples (and individuals, of course) coping with neuro-diversity, my speciality being ADHD. A person with ADHD finds life extremely challenging. Being the partner of a person …
I guess ideally, you would like to be both friends and lovers! That would indeed be wonderful, however, so many clients come to me and say “We are great friends and we have the same values. We do love each other, but we’re not in love anymore and we have almost no intimacy or sex. …
I can’t fail to notice how many couples of late, who have sessions with me, are struggling with arguments in their relationships. They seem to be erupting all over the place, like volcanos! I find the volcano idea a helpful analogy and it seems my clients do too. A volcano can be dormant for a long time or be pretty active and explode regularly.
You’ve been in each other’s pockets for a year now and Valentine’s is winging its way to you! This is still a most challenging year and it’s impossible not to have your primary relationship affected in some way for better or worse; that’s for sure. Whatever is going on for you both, I want to offer you this small but significant heart-opener that has the potential to change your relationship massively.
Here I am again, having moved a few weeks ago and what a time-consuming thing that is. I haven’t forgotten you, but have been absorbed with juggling storage, painting walls, creating a counselling room and lots more. Phew! At last a little breathing space. I hope you’ve had a good summer, ideally with time to …
Hello Couples, Of course, this is a subject that people either don’t want to talk about in any shape or form, or it’s the one thing they can talk about forever and a day!! The thing is, in a relationship, it’s vital to talk about sex, whether it’s happening or not. It’s an important part of …
Hello again. Many couples, sadly, are like ships that pass in the night, literally sailing by one another in a rush. Kids off to school, back home, rush to this class or that event etc. WHOA!…. let’s pause for a moment…..when and how do you manage to hug one another? And if you do actually …
Hello again, My life here in the nicely, old-fashioned, very lovely town of Hythe, Kent, has made me more aware of how I spend my days. “When am I going to see the sea today?” has become an important consideration…perfect for slowing me down. I didn’t move out of North London to keep being very busy, is …
I’m going to give you very few words this time as the video says it all… A gentle introduction to the ancient art of love called Tantra. A sweet, simple video to get you started: A little breathing, a mini meditation, being close to your beloved and a wee bit of eye gazing. Who knows …
Hello lovely couples, Let’s begin this fresh year with something that will definitely enhance your Relational Space, as I like to call it. What I mean is your relationship has a space and a feel all of it’s own, unique just to the two of you. And naturally, you are the two people assigned to looking …