I have to confess, it’s been a long time since I got into writing mode. Since the summer, my client numbers have ramped up considerably, especially more and more couples (and individuals, of course) coping with neuro-diversity, my speciality being ADHD. A person with ADHD finds life extremely challenging. Being the partner of a person …
I guess ideally, you would like to be both friends and lovers! That would indeed be wonderful, however, so many clients come to me and say “We are great friends and we have the same values. We do love each other, but we’re not in love anymore and we have almost no intimacy or sex. …
The Topics: Our Day For Couples with ADHD on May 13th – How it went Integrating the lovely traits of holidays Talk about money for love! Isn’t it lovely to be able to see spring sunshine finally arrive? I have been enjoying my garden this week and am delighted to share a few photos of it …
Hello there, I rarely talk here about the fact that I live with ADHD in my life….not in myself directly, but my husband has it and we’ve been married for twenty-one years. My standard line is “I love him to pieces and he drives me nuts”!! If you are in this situation, you will probably …
Here we are again, nearly at Christmas.🎄🎄🎄 or Chanukah 🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯 or whatever style of celebration you choose. A time of year when we have the aim of having fun and often being with family and friends, some we may not have seen since last year. And….it can be a tetchy time, with all the busyness …
Get Your Relationship on the Front Burner! What I realise about many couples, who come to see me, is that, although their relationship may be going pretty well, they recognise that there are aspects that really need enhancing. Alicia and Jeremy are one such couple in their early 30s. They are in a pretty good …
It’s been a beautiful summer around these parts (Folkestone, Kent) and I hope the same for you, wherever you are situated. And it’s got pretty chilly, all of a sudden. So, it’s just the right time to get more cosy and intimate together as the Autumn leaves start to fall….isn’t there a song in there …
Meet a couple called Margie and James. They are very different types from each other, as many couples are of course. She is generally calm, loves to be spontaneous and enjoys gregariousness and social activities. He is much more of an orderly type of person. He can be rather uptight and get stressed easily. He …
Meet ‘Amelia’ and ‘John’: Amelia feels like she’s living in a waiting room. She’s waiting. She’s waiting for Jonathan to do things she’d like him to do. A waiting room is a nowhere place, neither actively on the way nor having arrived. In a relationship, it’s an unsettled place, an emotional, probably anxious, resentful state. …
It’s good to be back with you again. I’m back in a different kind of way though. I want to tell you more stories about the couples I see and to inspire you with what they’re learning and bringing into their lives together. They are definitely turning relationship difficulties around. It never ceases to amaze …