Hello, dear couples,
It’s nearly festivity time with lots of different activities happening and maybe more people around, especially children who perhaps don’t live with you permanently.
This video tells the story of a couple in this situation who find themselves getting irritated and then arguing. Often, there is a routine to these unpleasant situations and the same old stuff (or content ) keeps on being played out.
However, when we take the emphasis off the content (the thing you’re apparently arguing about) and focus more on the process (what’s happening inside ourselves, then, often quite miraculously, understanding and healing can happen.
The video describes it more clearly than I can in words.
I couldn’t resist putting in this sweet video of myself and Bob, my husband, talking about arguments. It’s four years old!
And most of all…….Have a wonderful festive time and a lovely break from “normal” life.
See you in the New Year!
With love to you and your relationship
Priya xx