Dear Couples, Many of you may have heard of ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder), or maybe one of your children may have it, or someone else you know, or your partner may have it, or indeed wonder if they have it. I am definitely not someone who likes to put labels on people, especially if …
Hello lovely couples, Let’s begin this fresh year with something that will definitely enhance your Relational Space, as I like to call it. What I mean is your relationship has a space and a feel all of it’s own, unique just to the two of you. And naturally, you are the two people assigned to looking …
Hello lovely people, This is a subject that often comes up when we forget that a couple is made up of two individuals AND WE ARE NOT THE SAME!! That’s right. We are different in our passions, our interests in general and how we like to spend our time. This fact can be the source …
I hope 2018 is starting off well for you in your relationship. I had a bit of a revelation recently when working with a couple. We were looking at what she would like from her partner when she is not feeling well. She had felt rather uncared for when he came home and saw her …
Hello and Welcome to Encounter No. 3 – Conscious Touch This one is easy to describe as it’s a natural follow on when you are feeling emotionally close, warm and connected. It’s about taking the time to honour touch as something special: a giving and receiving. Of course, touch is already in your lives, hopefully …
Hello and Welcome to Encounter No. 2 – Loving Listening When we want to ask our partner to do something that is really important to us, we can all too often not mention it and get resentful if they don’t do it. Or we ask for it at a time that may be mixed up …
Hello and Welcome to Encounter No 1 – Sweet Contact Have you got your date booked to do this together? Take about 15-20 minutes for this… or as long as you like! I suggest you read this text together a couple of times to get a sense of it and then use the video to …
Hello! We are moving into those Encounters I spoke of in my last mail out and getting down to the real stuff now! In preparation, I’m suggesting you create a Sacred Space for Encountering one another! You may wonder what I mean by a Sacred Space. Well, it’s all about treating your Encounters as rather …
I find it rather an exciting concept that each relationship has it’s own unique and special Relational Space, the quality of which is dependent on how both partners look after it. We’ve probably all heard that phrase “Relationships Need Work”. Well, I personally prefer to think of the entity that is my Relational Spacebelonging to both of us …
Do you find that your weekday evenings, as a couple, can almost feel non-existent? Especially if you have young children, it seems very hard to even sit down together for an hour before bedtime. Many couples tell me they feel sad about these evening disconnections and their lack of togetherness. Well, I have this simple …