Hello there, I'm Priya and I LOVE relationships!
How is your relationship doing?
Perhaps you feel that you no longer talk, the spark has gone, you argue, your sex life has dwindled?
Maybe one or both of you have ADHD (like my husband does) and it feels like things are harder to tackle for you both than for others?
I have been respectfully supporting couples to work through these very common issues for over 30 years.
If you both love each other and want to work on your relationship, I can help you renew your love, like I have for many other couples. You are not alone.
You can choose from two ways to work with me, depending on your unique needs as a couple:
Encounter-Based Couples Support
Regular sessions with me either online or at my practice in Folkestone, Kent.
Ideal for couples that need regular or
longer-term support.
My Popular Couples Bespoke Intensives
8 hours of deep and loving work, over 2 days in Folkestone, Kent.
Ideal for couples that can't make regular sessions and need this time together without life's distractions.
Priya was empathic, encouraging, patient, gentle, good-humoured, practical, realistic and flexible. She provided a very safe space in which we felt held and able to say how we really feel. When we felt stuck it was OK as we could connect with Priya and find a way through.
She was hopeful for our future all the way along. We felt more and more reconnected with each other as we went through the journey together. We know we have definitely found each other again!
We went away feeling deeply happy.
Lynn and Saul
Lynn and Saul are a couple who love one another and are great friends...but they have lost their passion for one another, and their sexual life has all but stopped. They both very much wanted to re-ignite this missing piece for them as a couple and just couldn't find a way.
At the end of their intensive they felt very, very different (btw, no sexual activity takes place during the sessions.)
Above are their own words to me following their 8-hour Intensive in which all three of us were deeply immersed. It had emotions, depth, fun, insights, learnings....all that they needed to get them back onto a physical and emotionally loving track as a couple.
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About Deep Intensive Relationship Renewal for Couples
Wherever you are in your relationship either newly together, in a partnership for years, or single and finding difficulties with relating, I can help you.
I believe passionately that your connection with one another is the key.
Sessions are always confidential and can be in person or online. They can be 60-90 minute regular meetings or longer blocks of time: see Bespoke Intensives
I am a highly experienced, Accredited Couple Psychotherapist, having worked with relationships for over 30 years.
I am accredited with The British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP Accred.)
I am passionate about supporting people to have the best relationships they can possible have. I believe contented relationships grow contented families, communities and even countries!!
To briefly discuss your situation and see if I can help, give me a call or drop me a text on 07947 581 765
or email me priya@priyatourkow.com
I look forward to hearing from you
"We came to Priya at somewhat of a crossroads. Things weren't terrible, but they weren't great either. What we were sure of was that we needed help to find out if we could rekindle our emotional and physical connection after 14 years together.
First, Priya worked hard to understand both our relationship background and our individual upbringing to help us to appreciate our differences because we saw and experienced things in very different ways.
Priya asked questions and set us home-play tasks around building Foundational Intimacy. A simple framework on which trust, chemistry and fun can be established. The results so far have been astounding, and, quite frankly, have saved our marriage."
Helen and Wesley
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More About My Style...
When you feel close and intimately connected, it becomes a whole lot easier to feel like a loving team of two, working out issues, making plans and living life together fully, in your special unique relationship.
My style, as an Encounter Based Couple Therapist, is to help you engage with each other from your hearts via words and physical closeness. I will always respect your needs and pacing and listen fully to you both.
I am warm, supportive, lively and active, which means I'm totally with you and your well-being, as individuals as well as a couple, enabling you to have the best depth of connection possible. I am aware of all aspects of your relationship: emotional, practical and physical, since they are all linked. I particularly specialise in communication and intimacy/sexual issues.
I may ask you to dialogue with one another or take you through an exercise. As I coach and support you in this process, you become skilled at listening to each other deeply and more able to express your feelings and own your particular patterns. I often give you structures and styles of connecting to engage in together from one session to the next.
I also work with individuals needing support with relationship issues, ADHD, intimacy problems, depression, loss, anxiety and trauma.
We came to Priya for help with how we were communicating with each other and to help us understand one another better. We had grown resentful and were not respecting each other. Furthermore, we had stopped making time for our relationship. Priya helped us communicate in a respectful way and gave us tools and exercises to practise this. We have certainly noticed big changes in our relationship and are very happy that we came to couples' counselling.
Angela (Kindergarten Chair Person) and Thomas (Account Director)
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Call: 07947 581765 or Email: priya@priyatourkow.com