How to keep your couple-ness when you’ve had children

Is this happening to you two? Have you got so used to being a family, which, of course, is wonderful and rewarding but could also mean that you forget what it’s like to be just the two of you?  Remember….once you were a couple?! You had lots of time together for dates and yummy cuddles …

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Are You Fully in YOUR Relational Space?

You may remember this topic and video (which you can view below) from a year ago. Well, it seems to me that it’s an issue that keeps on coming back in the relationship world, and finds it’s way into my couple therapy sessions frequently. “Looking after that very precious relationship of yours, which you have created together, is vital.”  …

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Is It Time To Reignite Your Love For One Another?

Recently, Bob and I had the pleasure of attending the wedding of dear friends of ours. They have been together nine years and it felt so special that they had reached a place of honouring their relationship with a wonderful creative ceremony, expressing their love and commitment to one another. Marriage isn’t for everyone of course …

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Are You Arguing Through The Holidays?

Hello, dear couples, It’s nearly festivity time with lots of different activities happening and maybe more people around, especially children who perhaps don’t live with you permanently. This video tells the story of a couple in this situation who find themselves getting irritated and then arguing. Often, there is a routine to these unpleasant situations and …

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Let’s Talk About Sex

Hello Couples, Of course, this is a subject that people either don’t want to talk about in any shape or form, or it’s the one thing they can talk about forever and a day!! The thing is, in a relationship, it’s vital to talk about sex, whether it’s happening or not. It’s an important part of …

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Your Differences are Rich

Hello lovely people, This is a subject that often comes up when we forget that a couple is made up of two individuals AND WE ARE NOT THE SAME!! That’s right. We are different in our passions, our interests in general and how we like to spend our time. This fact can be the source …

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